How to Keep any Relationship Healthy

By November 21, 2015 Blog, Something to read.
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With all of the advice out there on how to rebuild your relationship, why not look at tips to keep your already healthy relationship in tact? There are plenty of things that you should avoid in order to make your relationship with your wife or girlfriend from unnecessary miscommunication as well as arguments. In fact, these tips can help you in every relationship that you have – read on.

DON’T be right all the time

There’s nothing more frustrating in a relationship than a person who insists that they are always right. No one is right all of the time, and it’s time that you realized that. It takes a much stronger person to admit that they were wrong than it is for someone to not admit that they may have made a mistake. Don’t be the know it all.

DON’T refuse to apologize

You will have something that you need to apologize for at some point, even if you don’t think that it’s a big deal. When you allow your partner to hear that you are sorry about something, you allow them to see that you are willing to move past something in order to have a healthier relationship. And even if you don’t think that you are wrong, apologizing is a great way to start fixing the situation instead of making it worse.

DON’T know the other person better than they know themselves

If you’ve ever been in a fight or a discussion when another person has claimed to know what you want, doesn’t that feel upsetting? You want to avoid doggedly trying to prove that you know more about the other person than they do – because that just isn’t the case. Take the time to consider their feelings and thoughts when they tell them to you. To not let them have a say is to make the conversation one sided.

DON’T assume anything

When you start to assume something, you start to chip away at the truth. IF you want to know about something, the other person is going to have to tell you what you need to know. Assuming that someone feels a certain way or that they want you to do a certain thing is only going to set you up for possible problems. Assuming is really just guessing.

DON’T rub it in

If you do find out that you are right about something, you don’t want to constantly rub the fact in long after the discussion is over. Your relationship isn’t about someone being right; it’s about the two of you being happy. If you’re right, you’re right, but then you need to move on. Your partner will not appreciate being reminded that they were wrong.

DON’T put your priorities first

While you both want to have your needs and wants addressed, when you try to focus more on your own needs than your partner’s needs, you will be seen as selfish and uncaring. A relationship means that you are putting someone else’s needs before your own, and in doing so, allowing your needs to be fulfilled as well. Seek out their needs to see how you can compromise to make both of you happy.

DON’T interrupt them

When you’re trying to make a point, you might feel that your words are more important than theirs, but this is not helpful. If you are interrupting what someone else is saying all the time, two things happen: one, you’re not hearing what they are saying, and two, you are showing that your opinions are more important than theirs. Instead, stop yourself and make a mental note to bring up your point when they are finished.

DON’T make promises you can’t keep

You aren’t going to be perfect, but when someone is counting on you to help maintain a good relationship; you need to be able to hold up your part of the bargain. This means that you need to be able to make promises that you can keep. And when you do make a promise to someone, they need to be able to expect that you will follow through – every time. If you can’t make a promise, then let them know that you will try your hardest, but that you can not promise it. This allows them to have realistic expectations of you.

No relationship is perfect, but there are plenty of ways that you can keep it from becoming unhealthy.

 

 

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No Time Like the Present: How to Get Girls By Living in the Moment

By November 21, 2015 Blog, Fantasy, Something to read.
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What’s the difference between the guys who just seem to be able to enter any situation and excel, and those who always strike out?

A night at the bar gave me the answer.

A few months ago my friends Cam and Chad and I had just gotten into the pub, ordered our drinks, and observed the scene to see where the honeys were. It’s a situation just about every guy can identify with: one of their friends looks around anxiously, locating the girls he thinks he’s capable of approaching, and the ones he knows (or thinks) he can’t. Cam’s fears and nerves were readily obvious. He was so focused on finding out where the action is that he wouldn’t notice it if it were right in front of him. In fact, that’s exactly what happened.

Then there was my other friend, Chad, the smooth type. Not better-looking than Cam; quite the contrary. Just much more relaxed-and that’s what counts. He didn’t look around much at all, and this was probably the best thing he could have done. Guys like Chad just relax in their seats, lean back with their drinks, and settle in to see what happens. There’s no desperation and anxiety in their faces, which is always a good start.

Chad didn’t talk or move around a lot, but what he did do right was notice what was going on. He used his eyes, and he used his ears. Sometimes those are a lot more valuable than your mouth.

A while went by before Chad talked to anybody. Finally he noticed that this girl was speaking a dialect of Spanish he knew. He said something in the dialect that went along with she was saying. She was amazed that he understood the language, and that he had actually listened to what she was saying. So impressed was the chick, who was pretty hot, that she had to find out more about him. His laid-back, “carpe diem” attitude was very inviting. They talked all night, and are still dating now.

Ironically, my friend who had his eyes open the most, Cam, was the one who missed out on opportunities right in front of them. He’d act so worriedly, so nervously, that when this one girl who was interested in him flirted shamelessly, he didn’t even notice. I told him, “Dude, that girl wants to talk to you,” and all he could think of was his past. “Nah, I’ve never been able to talk to girls like her.” The thing is, He could now! NOW a girl wanted to talk to him. But Cam was thinking so much about how he screwed up in the past, and didn’t want to in the future, that he didn’t for a second realize what was going on right NOW. Any guy who could have seen the chick roll her eyes in exasperation when she realized he was never going to notice.

And that’s the difference between Cam, who fails, and Chad, who succeeds: Some guys live in the moment; others live in the past. You can guess which ones are more successful.

If you really want to make it with girls, you have to start focusing on the now, not the then.

So maybe you had a tough break-up. Or a girl rejected you. Maybe you’ve never dated at all. It’s all stuff from the past. Too many guys feel like the past will dictate the future; they fear that because they messed up before, they’re going to again.

But the past has nothing to do with the future. Only the PRESENT, determines your future. The future is, in fact, right now.

Guys who do great with women-and I’m not just talking about the good-looking, tall, rich guys-don’t care what happened in the past. Sometimes they’ve screwed up more times than you; I know a guy who was P-A-T-H-E-T-I-C with girls when he was in school. Made some MAJOR boneheaded moves. But now he gets girls all the time! That’s because he, and other great players, only focuses on the present. They live in the moment, take it all in, and invite everyone else to share that special moment with them. They make a girl realize that now is the only time that matters.

So how do you go about doing that? Well, first thing I recommend is to become aware of your surroundings, and of the people you interact with. When you notice little things, hints as to what the person is like, you’ve got an instant “in” to the girl. For example, a friend of mine, John, noticed this girl wearing a ring with the name of his high-school on it. Most guys wouldn’t give the ring a second thought (unless it were a wedding ring, perhaps), but John did. Turns out they knew some of the same people from high school. After a bit of chatting, they began dating. Now they’re engaged.

Another great method is quite simple–actually LISTEN to what the girl is saying. Like Chad, you should try to take advantage of where a girl’s conversation is going, and use it to your benefit. This one girl I had a fling with kept making references to how much she enjoyed photography. If I had my head stuck in the past, I could have easily overlooked how important this was to her. Instead, I told her to pose for some photos at the bar with me, and she had such a good time soaking in the present, taking and being in photos, that she couldn’t help but be enamored.

Thirdly, notice girls’ body language. She can be flirting with you (or Cam) shamelessly, and you may not even notice. I highly suggest you pick up “Body Language”, by Allen Pease. Also check out some of my lessons on body language and approaching.

It’s all about noticing little things, and acting on them. Two of the greatest skills you can have are right there for you: the ability to see, and the ability to hear. Use your eyes to scope out what’s going on, and use your ears to check out what people are talking about. If you’re in tune with a situation-particularly when a girl is physically showing attraction-then you’re bound to have a good time.

Finally, if the past really bothers you, do something about it. Make today better than ever. Change your attitude from one of “I’m going to screw up” to “I’m gonna have fun”. Keep repeating that, keep visualizing success, and it’s gonna be pretty hard not to enjoy yourself. Realize that meeting girls or not, today could be your last day-so have fun.

In the words of Kim Lyons: “Yesterday is a cancelled check; Tomorrow is a promissory note; Today is the only cash you have, so spend it wisely.”

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self. you will have a healthy relationship with anyone in your life, along with your family, friends and dating partners.

 

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Communication & Sharing: The most necessary a part of any healthy relationship between 2 individuals is having the ability to speak and listen to each other. In healthy relationships, individuals don’t lie. Communication relies on honesty and trust.

Respect and Trust:In healthy relationships, you learn to respect and trust important people in your life. Disagreements may still happen, however you learn toremain calm and point out how you feel. Talking sedately helps you to know the real reason for not getting on, and it’s a lot easier to find out the way to fix it. In healthy relationships, working through disagreements usually makes the connection stronger. Read More

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Cute and sweet love quotes for him should be able to help you express your feelings to him in a cute way of expressing your love. Maintaining a good relationship with your boyfriend or husband is the duty for you, and there are many ways to do it. Making love quotes could be your option because cute love quotes for him can become a great present for them because sometime the feeling is what matter the most and small things like this could improve your relationship for a longer duration or even until death removing the bond you have right now with him. Just write everything you want to say to him on the cute love quotes for him, because your feelings should be able to find its way to your boyfriend or husband and making them happier because you were able to say everything on your mind and convey every single feeling about them.

Here we select some beautiful and sweet love quotes for you:

  1. You are every reason, every hope and every dream I’ve ever had
  2. I love you and that’s the beginning and end of everything
  3. To be your friend was all I ever wanted; to be your lover was all I ever dreamed.

 

These love quotes will help you to make strong relation and do romance with your partner. It will increase the trust of him towards you and you will ultimately got a happy love life with your boyfriend or husband. Hope these love quotes will change you mode of life and give you reason to spend more fun and remember able time with your partner.

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1. CLEOPATRA AND MARK ANTONY …

 

When: 31 BC

Where: Rome and Egypt

What’s So Special about Their Love: These two had a love so strong; war was waged against them to break them up. When Mark Antony left his wife, Octavia, for the mesmerizing Cleopatra, Octavia’s brother Octavian brought the army of Rome to destroy them. These two lovers were so entranced with each other that they committed suicide Read More

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4 years ago I met a guy. He was all I wanted, I fell in love and I knew that he is love of my life. After 2 years we got married. After a year he went to visit his sister in Australia. When he came back he came totally different. I would asked him honey what’s wrong but he didn’t said anything. After 2 years of marriage he disappeared Read More

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In the romantic transition from online chats to real-life meetings, the reality inevitably turns out more than you planned on and less than you had hoped for.
 

 

I have some experience in the area of love in the digital age.

I met a man online who lived on the other side of the country. We were technologically inseparable for two months before I flew out to spend a week exclusively in his company.  In some respects, the week contained everything I imagined the relationship would be… but there’s also the reality of how meeting him actually turned out.

 

It wasn’t love at first Tweet, but the attraction our conversations and Google searching generated caught me off guard.  I didn’t think it would go any further than an unrequited crush.  I was wrong.  Very wrong.

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I thought that I had overcome this. I believed that I got it over and I was going to continue forward. But there are moments when pain clutches me and I miss him…. Our relationship lasted quite long considering the fact that we were married. We loved each other without making promises. We knew that if we had changed our relations, magic would have disappeared. The thought of divorcing my husband and marrying him has never crossed my mind. We are grown up people with realistic outlook after all. Read More

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